Is life working out the way you want it to?
Are you fulfilling your potential?
Achieving all those dreams you imagined when you were much younger?
Are you being all you can be?
If you are answering no to these questions, can you clearly determine what it is that’s been holding you back.
In order to push your life forward and to achieve better results with your life, you must identify the obstacles that have been standing in your way.
“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” Eleanor Roosevelt
I’ll give you an example. I had problems with my boiler this weekend. It wasn’t working so that meant I had neither hot water nor heating. I wanted both. So the solution that had to be found was to investigate what was stopping the boiler working. Knowing this would enable the boiler to work and then there would be heating and hot water available to me. The same applies to your life, find the obstruction, and remove it so as to release your full personal power.
Personal power is the combined strength of all you can be, which collaborates to bring vitality to your life even during difficult times. Having personal powers means you draw from your inner resources what you need to perform at your best.
Many of you will sit there thinking, well if I could find the answer to what’s holding me back, don’t you think I’d have fixed it by now.
Well I’m going to make it easy for you to discover your answer.
First stop looking outside to find the obstacle. It’s not going to be an external factor, circumstances, event or other person responsible for you not achieving the life you want.
Secondly, start looking at yourself, because you’re responsible for the results you produce, and more often than not you are your own worst enemy.
Self-limiting thoughts and behaviours are normally what holds us back! Self-limiting beliefs are those things you believe about yourself that place limitations upon yourself.
Thoughts such as:
I’m just a bad (add a word);
I can’t do (add a word)
I’ll never be (add a word)
I’m wasting time trying to be a (add a word)
Always talking yourself down, giving up to easily all the time.
I assure you, when you go through many of the struggles you go through in your life, most of it comes from your self-limiting beliefs.
You have to replace your negative limiting thoughts and behaviours with positive ones.
So I’m saying maybe the reason you’re not reaching your goals is simply you’re sabotaging yourself.
We each have a choice. Instead of sabotaging yourself, support yourself.
Only when you believe the impossible is achievable, and you believe this with 100% certainty will you then move your life forward, and probably this will be at a fast pace from then on.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” Marianne Williamson
Please don’t let what’s been holding you back stop you from achieving your dreams!